It is important to have tolerance in relationships. Conflicts can’t be 100% avoided in relationships.
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In other words, conflict exists in relationships when partners don’t
tolerate one another.
Tolerance is
one of the basic fundamentals for a healthy relationship.
So many
people get into relationships thinking or trying to act or play out the scenes
of romance movies they have watched forgetting they are in the real world. They
watch fall in love with the lovely scenes in movies. For instance the movie
titled ‘Romeo and Juliet’ by Leonardo DiCaprio and Claire Danes has so many
heart felt scenes that make you fall in love immediately.
I am not condemning
movies, they are great source of entertainment and we are to learn from them
and not forget that in the real world, it just might not play out the same way.
Many people
go into relationships without been fully equipped to handle situations. Some are
not emotionally matured enough to set out on a serious relationship. This is
one of the reasons many relationships are nowhere to be found today.
Developed minds
and emotions are essential for tolerance in relationships. An under developed
mind cannot tolerate anything in a relationship.
Per adventure
you have a nagging partner, you must tolerate while trying to solve the issue
of nagging.
You might
not like your partner leaving the cable on all through the night; you must
tolerate and put it off yourself while trying to solve the problem.
Probably one
of those unimaginable things like your partner eats heavily always for no
specific reason could trouble you.
There are
scores of things you have to tolerate in relationships.
There are
tons of things one must tolerate in relationships and try to help your partner
out of them. Some probably have become habitual habits they find difficult to
stop.
Tolerance is
a virtue, an asset and you have to yearn for it for a more healthy
relationship.
When there
is tolerance in relationships, partners can easily let go.
Tolerance in
relationships will drive away anger and love will thrive.
Love covers
a multitude of wrongs.
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What then is Tolerance
The world is
in need of great tolerance for peace to thrive.
Tolerance is
a permissive attitude towards other people and their opinions or way of life. Tolerances
also mean you treat other people / your partner decently. Treat others just the
way you want them to treat you. Address people including your partner the way
you want them address you too.
It can be
attributed to the saying ‘Respect is Reciprocal’
When you
have respect for your partner, you will tolerate their mess or attitudes. This doesn’t
mean you won’t address the issue or situation but you will do it with respect
and love and at the right time because timing is everything.
Tolerance in
relationships also includes tolerance for other culture. There are thousands of
cultures and cultural values surrounding us today, the ability to tolerate is Key
to lasting peace.
To be able
to tolerate in relationships, having the ability to listen will be of great
benefit
From research,
those who have good listening ability have higher percentage of tolerance than
those who don’t.
Tolerance as
a virtue can be learned but it takes time and eventually, it will be a plus to
your relationship.
Every one of
us must work towards tolerating one another at every level.
With tolerance
in relationships, there will be no place for Anxiety and Depression.
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This is a lovely writeup. We all need tolerance
ReplyDeleteWe sure do. Keep spreading the word. With love.
DeleteI appreciate this.
ReplyDeleteVictor
Welcome victor
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