73 Questions To Ask That Will Change Your Relationship

Relationships after a while could suffer some setbacks. Notwithstanding, there are some questions you need to ask yourself that will bring back the love you once enjoyed with your partner. Some of these questions are for your partner while others are personal and can change your relationship for good, providing new insights about your relationship.

Here are the questions and they deserve sincere answers

How did the relationship start?
What did you love about your partner?
Do you trust each other?
What was your first impression about your partner?
Do you still like what you loved about your partner?
Is there intimacy in your relationship?
Are you happy with the intimacy you share?
What triggers this intimacy?
Do you feel the same way you felt for your partner at the onset of the relationship?
What are you doing to keep this feeling real as (8) above
Are you affecting each other’s life positively?
Are you challenged positively because of your partners influence?
How often do you talk and laugh out together?
When was the last time you imagined good about your partner?
What is your relationship with your partner’s friends and family?
Do you like spending time with your partner’s friends and family?
If yes to (16) above, how much time?
If no to (16) above, why?
How often do you talk on phone with your partner?
How often do you think of your partner?
Do you smile when you talk with your partner?
Do you make lite of serious issues in your relationship?
Do you have a good listening ear?
Can you recall the most romantic moment with your partner?
Do you still create romantic moments with your partner?
Do you understand you partners’ body language?
Do you keep to dates?
When was the last time you had a date with your partner?
How early do you return from work?
Do you keep to promise? It is better you don’t make a promise than break them.
How do you show your love and affection for each other?
When last did you say “I love you” to your partner?
When last did you say “Thank you” to your partner?
When last did you show concern for your partners’ well-being?
How much do you think you understand your partner?
Do you respect each other’s opinion?
What do you do when you feel jealous or angry?
How do you feel when others find your partner attractive?
How do you manage (38) above?
Do you feel jealous when you see your partner with the opposite sex?
How do you handle (40) above?
Are you both interested in the health of your relationship? It should not be one sided.
Do you bring up arguments very often and why? Read Agree to Disagree Not Good Enough for Healthy Relationship
Do you compromise for your relationship?
If yes to (44), do you feel it’s a burden?
If no to (44) why?
Do you accept your wrongs and apologized to your partner?
Do you forgive your partner’s mistakes?
Do you show irritation easily for mistakes of your partners?
Do you value each other’s beliefs?
Is it really necessary to know everything from your partner’s past?
What is your plan for the relationship?
How do you feel when your partner has to leave you for some time because of work or studying?
Will you say sorry to your partner even though it’s not your fault?
When was the last time you had a thorough conversation with your partner?
What is your best means of communication?
How open is your communication line?
Are there secrets your partner ought to know?
Do you think you are on same page with your partner’s friends and family?
Does your partner accept the way you are?
Have you ever thought about cheating on your partner?
If yes to (61) Why?
Have you ever thought about breaking up with your partner?
If yes to (63) why?
Are you in a relationship because of the excitement or the feeling to be loved and cared for?
Do you have and plan the future with your partner?
Do you remember why you got married in the first place?
Are you willing to compromise your happiness for your spouse’s happiness?
What are your relationship short and long term goals?
Have you experienced more joyful moments than sad ones in your relationship?
What makes you happy?
What boundaries have you set in your relationship?
Would you choose your partner over and over again?