Sometimes it's difficult to tell if someone is secretly in love with you. We have friends of opposite sex who show lots of care and we might be misled to think they are actually in love with us and they might be!
Love could play some trick on us
sometimes. However, there are ways to tell if someone has stronger feelings
than you may realize. A person in love will exhibit certain behaviors. These
are the giveaway signs that we do not take seriously since the person involve
is a friend.
The person right beside you may be in
love with you, and you don’t just know it. Probably you are childhood friends
who hang out a lot, have so many things in common, know each other’s secret and
you are fully aware if He or She is in a relationship. Unknowingly to you, they
have great crush for you.
We take our one special friend for just
a friend even if they go the extra mile for us. They are not expressing their
feelings to you verbally but showing you through their actions. You should have
a second thought for anyone who goes the extra mile for you especially if they
are not in a relationship.
Signs someone is
in love with you
1. They go the extra mile
Friends don’t go
the extra mile except exceptional friends and most likely the ones that are
secretly in love. A friend in love will go out of their way to see you happy,
be of help when you need one the most, rescue you when you are lost, take you
to the hospital when you are ill and don’t leave you there, rather they stay
with you. They care about your financial wellbeing, they check on you regularly
via call or text, they just want to make sure you are okay and moving on.
2. They have fun with
you
You must have observed
that not all your friends you have real fun with. Be
sure to pay attention to the person who's always there for you ensuring you
have fun in whatever you are doing. When a friend takes it on to ensure you
have fun in any task, cheering you up could be love.
3. They pay additional attention to you
We make out time for
things and those that are dearer to us. Watch-out for a friend who pays
additional attention to you. They want to hear your voice and want to be there
for you.
4. Eye contact
If by now you have someone with all the above attributes, when next you're withthe person, note how often your eyes come in contact. There is some amount connection between the eye and our emotions. We look more at the one we are in love with often while communicating. Our eye conveys a powerful message while talking to the one we love. Though, this could be misunderstood especially if the one is shy. When someone is in love with you, they will stare at your eyes more directly and for a longer period of time; they want to be completely present with you," Dr. Flores said. The eye helps in connecting emotionally.
5. They talk about you / introduces you
When
someone is in love with you, they just can’t hide it forever, rather they talk about you at the slightest opportunity. They sometimes pass the message across by
the type of people they talk / introduce you to (family and friends) even their business partners or bosses. This is done to prove you are safe with them. Nobody
wants to be in an unsafe relationship.
6. They are responsive
When someone is responsive
to everything about you is a good indicator. When you are not happy they are
not happy and when you are happy, they are happy. Your feelings each moment
becomes theirs. They can read your mood from afar and respond to it
appropriately.
7. They remember tiny details about you
It
is not setting reminders for important events, but remembering tiny details
about you, mentioned casually while chatting over the social media or while
taking a walk together. It could be when they visited and you did something you
don’t expect them to remember and they did. Someone in love will remember
the very tiny detail about you. They will remember important dates in your life
like your birthdate you probably mentioned once, you best meal, color and even
your workout days.
8. Do they
mention you in the future?
If
they mention you in the future is a sure sign. No one will mention you in their
future except they want to spend the rest of their life with you.
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8 Signs Someone Is In Love With You And You Don’t Know
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