Everyone is different, each one of these points will look differently depending on the individuals. These are what I draw from my experiences. Comments are encouraged below. Negative ones won’t be deleted either. Smiles.
So, here are some psychological facts about love, crushes and friendship you should know.
1. Giving a woman independence is a love enigma. The more independence you give her, the more she feels drawn to you.
2. You can easily know if a woman loves you by looking at her body language when another woman is looking at you while smiling.
Read: 28 Romantic Gestures That Every Woman Love
3. Surprising a woman with intimate gifts like a bathrobe, new undies, etc triggers the same feelings of love like just before the first romantic encounter.
4. You can revive a numb relationship by frequently spending time together on a trip, going to a picnic, etc.
5. Women can easily make their men remain faithful by buying them surprise gifts like a watch, a shirt, a pair of shoes, underwear or a new shirt.
6. Women experience psychological pleasure first before they experience it physically. While men experience physical pleasure first before they experience it psychologically.
Read: 29 Clear Signs That She Is In Love With You
7. One of the ways of making a woman feel loved is by stimulating her mind and making her feel the love experience by words of affirmation like “I love you” and other love languages as peculiar to her.
8. Making a woman feel loved, beautiful, and appreciated means a great deal to her.
9. Looking into your partner’s eyes and holding eye contact during sex and foreplay can make them feel far more turned on and excited than if your eyes were closed.
10. When two people cuddle or hug each other for a while, the brain releases oxytocin hormones that help relieve migraine and calms the nerves for up to four hours.
11. “The Lady In Red” - Men are psychologically turned on by women on red dresses. The color red is strongly linked to desire and attraction in men.
Read: 16 Amazing Clothes That Guys Find Attractive
Read: 20 Best Ways To Keep Him Totally Hooked In
12. The first impression and eye contact are some of the most effective ways of attracting someone. Most people fall in love through eye contact during the first 30 seconds.
For instance, it is reported that women wear red clothes more often during the fertile phases of their menstrual cycle. Could that be why men are psychologically turned on?
13. You gradually fall in love with someone you spend a lot of time with.
This phenomenon is known as the exposure effect. Exposure Effect is a psychological phenomenon by which people tend to be attracted to each other the more time they spend together.
14. People are more likely to be attracted to those who are just as attractive as they are. This is known as the Matching Hypothesis.
Studies show that if you are attractive, you might want to be with the most beautiful/handsome person in the neighborhood, at work, etc.
15. Changing the curtains of the room where you frequently make love has the same psychological effect as making love in a different room.
16. Taking someone on a first date that gets their heart pumping like a roller coaster ride, fast car, motorcycle ride or a movie thriller spikes their adrenaline, tricking them into believing they enjoyed spending time with you more than with any other person.
Read: Why Are Date Nights So Important
17. The one who
cries with you in your pain will hardly workout on you.
18. Testosterone is a powerful male hormone
that attracts women by the odour it produces. Wearing a cologne that simulates
that same odour can make your woman strongly fall in love with you over again.
19. The link between humor and intelligence has for a long time fascinated psychologists.
Women are emotionally, psychologically drawn
to funny and humorous men. Women love to be happy, therefore, a man who makes
them laugh draws them like a magnet.
21. With
reference to #12, looking in strangers’ eyes frequently can lead them and eventually
fall in love with you. A study involving 72 undergrad students showed that
staring into a stranger's eyes can make you form an attachment, despite never
even talking to them.
22. Holding hands
with your significant other reduces mental and physical pain.
23. With
reference to #22, looking at the picture of your significant other deeply, provides
some sought of relief to the mind.
24. Out spoken
females and quiet males tend to make the best couples. Though they might need
to compromise at some issues just as it is peculiar to every relationship.
“Understanding is key”.
24. A person who
has been cheated on once is less likely to fall in love with someone else.
25. Relationship
with those of opposite nature/behavior tend to last longer than those with
similar ones. “The balance is key here”.
26. Men tend to
love faster than women, though they might not express their feelings
immediately.
27. Seeing your
love can automatically raise your heart beat.
Read: Why Is
Love So Complicated
28. Love can
decrease your vision, making you to understand only things that you can
interpret or imagine.
29. It’s a great
feeling being loved back by the person you love.
30. Love makes
the fastest bond between individuals.
31. Most often
boys make the first move. But, if she does, then, no one can love you more than
her.
32. Most people
can't make eye contact with their crush.
33. A
relationship should last more than four months to be a true love story.
34. Love can be addictive.
35. Tears caused
by loved ones has the most painful feeling.
36. Someone who
has never been in love before 16 is too judgmental and picky when it comes to
finding love.
37. Not speaking
with the one you love for more than 48 hours can make you feel homesick or
terribly lonely.
38. Unexpected
and unplanned stories of love last for a longer time.
39. According to
experts, a birthday wish from loved ones produces a vibe in our body which can
increase almost 10 days of our lives.
40. You always
relate to a person you love with your best songs.
41. True love can
wait for several years to get in a relationship with the one they love.
42. The reason
behind successful teenagers love, heartbreak movies and songs are the true life
heartbreak stories of humans.
43. One of the
reasons behind depression is unsuccessful love stories.
Read: 15
Ways To Find Good Friends No Matter Your Age
44. Appearance
and Social Status matter less if you have liked someone due to their good
behavior or great personality.
45. Some people
can't bear the loss of loved ones and eventually die after a few months or
years due to mental or physical illness or deep loneliness.
46. The more you
ignore the one you truly love, the more you fall for them.
47. Relationships
are ruined as a result of misunderstanding and lack of mutual understanding.
Read: Best
24 Romantic Gestures To Make Him Smile
48. Heartbreak
after true love is equally painful as physical pain.
49. People say
that trust is very important in a relationship. But, it's a false concept. Time
is the most important thing. With time grows the trust, friendship, you grow
together, immense and inseparable bonds.
50. After learning the name of your crush,
does it suddenly appear everywhere? It’s like they’re stalking you.
This phenomenon is called The Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon. Also known as frequency illusion.
51. If you love someone, your brain overlooks
and ignores the flaws of that person causing them to appear perfect.
52. Shy people tend to be more modest which is
considered an attractive trait by many.
53. With reference to #34, passionate love is
like an addiction. For better or for worse.
54. Love inspires creativity. It changes how
you think. It opens your mind by stimulating creative thought. This new way of
thinking shapes the way you analyze and process both emotions and experiences.
55. With reference to #54, our creativity when
in love could be expressed in the art of writing, painting, etc.This eventually
become one of the ideal mediumof expressing your love and those other new and
complicated feelings you just can’t express with words.
56. Men tend to lower their voice when they
talk to their crushes and they get pretty loud when they’re excited.
57. Absence of your love makes the heart grow
warmer and sometimes, a brief absence of your love creates a stronger
attraction.
58. Opposite attract is real. Being similar in
so many ways is not always the best recipe for true love. Love needs conflict
to survive sometimes.
59. With reference to #58, conflict creates
passion, interest and curiosity. It breeds compromise and allows you to learn
from your partner not only does this strengthen your connection but it also
keeps your love on its toes. Though this is largely dependent on your partners
wiliness to learn new stuff about your and you doing likewise.
60. The butterflies you get in your stomach
when you see the person you’re in love with is actually a stress response. This
stress response is caused by adrenaline rush.
61. You get a woman’s attention with your
appearance while personality locks her heart-in.
62. Love relieves stress. After a long day,
one act of love such as holding your loved one’s hand can transform your mood
and melt your stress.
63. If a girl likes you, she’ll play with her
hair when talking to you. Though not applicable to every girl.
64. Based on triangular theory of love,
perfect love is a combination of passion, commitment and intimacy.
65. Mimicry is a sign of attraction. If you
mimic the gesture of your crush, it would make him/her closer to you. Just
don't overdo.
Read: How
To Be Romantic - 26 Ways To Woo The Girl Of Your Dreams
66. If you want to create an instant link to
your crush, say his/her name atleast twice in the conversation.
67. In your mind, you have tried your crush's
last name - admit it.
68. 2 in 5 women suffer from anuptaphobia. The fear of
never finding love.
69. Pretending or trying not to miss the one
you love tricks your mind into missing them more.
70. Beautiful ladies are often less likely to
be asked out because most men tend to be intimidated by their beauty.
71. Having a conversation with the one you
love will improve your mental strength.
72. Research has shown that men and women tend
to fall for each other in dangerous situations than in unexciting surroundings.
73. You’ve probably had an imaginary
conversation in your head with your crush. It usually goes better than any real
conversation you might have with them.
74. From experts, over 60% of people change
their looks after a break up.
75. Cuddling is great and cuddling with your
loved one triggers a reaction in the brain similar to taking pain killers.
76. You can love two people at the same time
but never at the same level.
77. Love changes you, guides you and
sometimes, destroys you in mysterious and powerful ways you can’t phantom.
78. Love is a double-edged sword. Sometimes it
keeps us safe and happy. Other times it cuts us up and cuts us down.
79. Weoften think that those we're after or
having a crush on are more attractive and flawless than those who chasing us
with love all by themselves.
80. The tone of a voice can greatly affect
attractiveness. It is observed that women with higher voices attract more men
while on the contrary, men with lower voices attract more women.
81. People with more symmetrical faces are
more attractive.
82. With reference to #10 and #22, hugging
someone you love triggers the brain to release oxytocin, a chemical that
reduces stress and promotes happiness that can last for several hours.
83.
Body language
is one of the first thing that attract people or sends the most signals (smile,
wiggle hair,
eye contact, waist movement, etc.).
84. According to experts, hormone levels, that
is, high estrogen levels attract more men, while high testosterone levels
attract more women.
85. With reference to #72, it's much easier to
have love in dangerous situations, but it's hard to tell if it’s true love or
not.
86. With reference to #23, looking at the
pictures of those you love or your significant other in particular can reduce
stress levels greatly, reduce pain levels, and help you recover faster in the
event of injury, illness or uncertainty.
87. Travel with your new found love for a few
days can show their character, especially in cleaning up garbage, his/her
attitude towards strangers, socializing, etc.
88. The more you want to be close to each
other, the more you need to establish personal boundaries and relationship
boundaries.
Read: 8
Reasons For Personal Space In Your Relationship
89. Love lasts longer when partners work
together to achieve self-improvement. If the two sides are at different paces,
the intimate relationship is usually difficult to maintain. So it’s
important to develop self in any little way.
90. Domestic violence. He hit you once, dear,
there’s every possibility he’ll hit you countless times more.
Read: 26
Things To Do When Your Boyfriend Unexpectedly Hurts You
91. From experts: the more you make love, the
more you love.
In the relationship between men and women,
sexual activity can promote the secretion of oxytocin. Hence, the more frequent
sexual activity, the stronger the sense of intimacy and attachment/bond between
partners.
92. With reference to #13, multiple
appearances can really make the other person like you - the exposure effect.
93. Many men really want to break-up but may
not tell you a break-up clearly.
94. The longer cohabitation before marriage,
the more difficult it is to get married and the lower the possibility of
marriage.
95. Men are more likely to be attracted to
women who have similar skeletal structures to their mothers. This is called "sexual
imprinting"; though this is a term coined by researchers.
96. Both sexes will miss their ex after
break-up.
97. With reference to the above point, the
final reason for your separation may be that your partner did not accept your
shortcomings in the beginning but thought that won’t be an issue because they
love you.
98. Sometimes, your heart needs more time to
accept what your mind already knows.
If you love
someone, try to express your love for them before it expires. Love do expire if
you must know, and if someone express their love for you, you really don’t have
forever before you accept them. Think it through and accept them or not because
you don’t know the expiry date this person have on their love for you in case
you’re taking forever to love them back.
99. When your mood is not good without any
reason, check carefully; you are definitely missing someone.
100.
If someone stays with
you after you hurt them more than once, they love you because they're choosing
pain over pleasure.
101. Love is when attraction and lust is gone.
Real love is based on long-term decisions.
102. Falling in
love at first sight is apparently true according to psychologists and it takes
just 2-4 minutes to fall for someone at first sight.
103. The person
who doesn’t see love as fairy-tale will succeed far more in relationship than
those who sees love as a fairy-tale. Romantic movies are cool. But don’t forget
they’re acting out a script. Just work out your relationship for the best
rather than wishing those fairy-tale will play out in your relationship;
putting yourself, your partner and eventually, your relationship in jeopardy.
104. Some extraordinary
research has found that when couples who are in love stare at each other“eye
contact” for three minutes, their heart-rates synchronizes. That is: their
heart beat at same pace/rate.
105.
To have real love, you
must sure have trust. No true love/relationship thrives with just love. Great
trust must be part of it.
106. A times, People have to cry out all their
tears to make room for a heart full of smiles.
107. Being deeply loved by someone gives you
strength, while loving someone totally gives you courage.
108. With reference to #34, being in love is
identical to being addicted to cocaine because it produces equal chemical
euphoria and has nearly similar effects on a person’s mind.
109. With reference to #102, be careful who
you look at, because you may fall for a stranger if you keep gazing at them.
110. Couples with too much similarity or too
many differences tend not to last very long. Finding the balance is key in
every relationship.
111. If someone is ready to be in a
relationship, they are more likely to seek out love.
112. The fourth finger of the left hand has
the vena amoris, the ‘vein of love’, which is connected directly to the heart.
113. According to research, women find guys
extra appealing if they notice other females smiling at them.
114. The term “love” is from the Sanskrit
lubhyati, meaning “desire.”
115. In Bali, men believed a woman would fall
in love if her suitor fed her a certain kind of leaf incised with the image of
a god who sported a large penis.
116. The word “lesbian” is derived from the
Greek island Lesbos, where the poetess Sappho composed her famous poems to her
famous female lovers.
117. Falling in love can induce a calming effect on the body and mind,
raising levels of nerve growth factor for up to a year.
118. In relation to #117, getting dumped often
leads to “frustration attraction,”
which causes an individual to love the one who dumped him or her even more.
119. European males subconsciously seek out
women whose waist circumference is about 70% of their hips. Beauty icons such
as Audrey Hepburn, Venus de Milo, and even Twiggy had a waist ratio of exactly
70%.
120. With reference with #108, when a person
falls in love, the ventral tegmental area in the brain floods the caudate
nucleus with dopamine. The caudate then signals for more dopamine; the more
dopamine, the higher a person feels. The same system becomes activated when
someone takes cocaine.
121. When women breathe in androstadienone,
which is an odorless testosterone derivative in male sweat, they give such men
way higher attractiveness ratings than they would otherwise.
122. It is estimated that 40–70% of female
homicides are committed by their lovers and spouses.
123. Couples around the world who divorce tend
to divorce around their fourth year of marriage. After four years, marriages
generally stabilize until around eight years.
124. Many cultures use knots as symbols of an
eternal love that has neither a beginning nor an end.
125. Breaking up with someone you love
triggers activity in the same part of the brain responsible for physical pain.
That’s why you feel hurt after a break-up.
126. Women often feel loved when talking face
to face with their partner; men, on the other hand, often feel emotionally
close when they work, play, or talk side by side.
127. There is an organization called the 'Cuddle Party' that holds cuddle parties where you cuddle with
strangers and make new friends.
128. With reference to #124, young Muslim
women would send love messages to their lovers using intricate knots.
129. People
having a realistic outlook on love are less likely to get hurt in a romantic
relationships.
130. Mimicking
the body language of the opposite sex portrays interest.
131. Heartbreak
is very real, but you should not keep your mind clouded by it. Work on your
relationship for the best experience and one with “they lived happily
thereafter”.
132. Fact check:
You might not always love the person you trust, but you can trust the person
you love.
133. Be with the
one whom you cannot live without, not someone you can live with.
134.
When you know that a
person likes you, a part of you starts to like them back, even if you had no
such feelings initially.
135. Being loved
by someone deeply gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you
courage.
136. Observe
closely if the feet of the person of interest is turned towards you, or they
are leaning in, when interacting with you. If yes, they’re interested in you.
If their feet is turned towards the exit, they’re so much not into you and
whatever you’re saying that moment is of no importance to them.
137. Being in
love is similar to having an obsessive neurotic disorder.
138.
Sometimes, addressing a person by
name makes them closer to you.
139. If you have to choose between the first
one and the second one, choose the second, since, if the first one was good,
you wouldn't have fallen for the second.
140. Remembering
details about a person portrays affection.
141. We ignore
the ones who love us, and adore those who ignore us.
142. A crush
which lasts for more than four months is not a crush anymore but love.
143. Rejection
hurts. It can cause physical pain.
144. Falling in
love is not a choice, but staying in love is a great choice.
145. Most of often, first love is the purest.
146. Ego wrecks relationships.
147. Men fall in love faster as compared to
women.
148. We sometimes fall harder for the person
whom we try to ignore.
149. Love is universal. It speaks one language
and no matter which part of the world you originate, love is something everyone
truly desire/long for and really want to experience.
150. Love changes over time. There’re
different levels of love. They’re: The “honeymoon phase" which is of the butterflies
in the stomach. This stage last for about a year, maybe,the romantic love gets
gradually replaced by committed love. It is committed love that sustain a
marriage and not just romance.
151. The people who give the best relationship
advice are usually singles. Wonder why?
152. Love is one of many strong feelings
humans possess.
153. Love is both chemistry and compromise.
154. Everyone, everywhere can experience love
if they chose to.
155. The pitch of your voice affects
attraction, women with high voices attract more men, and men with low voices
attract more women.
156. Love is chemistry - the actual biological
changes that take place when we fall in love are amazing. The chemistry of love
can relieve pain and literally break the heart (called stress-induced
cardiomyopathy).
157. Love is compassion - compassion is
necessary if love is to survive and thrive. Consideration and empathy are
important foundations for long-lasting relationships.
158. Love is a compromise - sharing a bed with
someone is a compromise. Sharing just about everything you own with someone
requires huge amounts of compromise.
159. A woman who makes him “feel like a man”
is the woman a man falls for.
160. With reference to
#26 and #147, women take 15 days to fall in love while it take men just 8
seconds.
161. Love always
starts with physical
features.
162. Love is literally
blind. It doesn’t seem to matter what other people say in regard to your lover.
He/she is always perfect in your eyes.
163. You are more
likely to be attracted to someone you have no chance with. But you keep the
attraction to yourself.
164. With time grows
trust, friendship, and an inseparable bond between your partner and you.
165. When a guy likes
a girl, he’ll look her in the eye. When a girl likes a guy, she’ll look away.
167. It takes 15
months and 27 days to forget someone you love with all your heart.
168. Kissing helps us choose who we love, and
it is a big player in maintaining long lasting love.
Read: Reasons
Why Kissing Is Indispensable In A Relationship
169. Love lasts longer when both partners are
actively working toward self-actualization.
170. Women are less attracted to men who have
a belly (this one might be a bit obvious). A large amount of abdominal fat on
an individual indicates that they have lower levels of testosterone – meaning
that they also have lower sex drive and low fertility.
171. Long distance relationships work because partners talk about intimate
feelings and thoughts more often and they seem to have a more idealized view of
their partner.
172. Studies have shown that happiness is
contagious. It can be hard for people to walk away from someone who is happy,
or not love someone who is happy simply because they are so enjoyable to be
with.
173. A strong sense of humor is generally
associated with intelligence and honesty. This is why most women are attracted
to men who possess a strong sense of humor.
174. Men who possess deeper voices are more
likely to appear attractive or make an impression on women than men who possess
higher voices.
175. People generally prefer an attractive
face over an attractive body when it comes to long-term relationships. However,
when people are looking for a fling, the body will win over the face on the
basis of physical attraction.
176. The simple act of expressing gratitude
towards people whom you love will generate an immediate spike in happiness.
177. If time is on your side, then you might
be more likely to find love than if it were not. Timing significantly
influences love, and individuals are more likely to fall in love if they have a
mindset of looking for adventure, wanting to leave the house, if they’re lonely,
in a foreign land/new place, gravitating into a new stage of life, financially
and psychologically ready or to start a family.
178. Women give physical boundaries to those
they like as a test to see if you are trying to take advantage of them.
179. Give her the gift of missing you.
Distance is always sexy, it is something primal and dangerous to them that
there’s a possibility you might die in battle and not return home after the war.
You should self-isolate sometimes.
180. The power of touch and eye contact can
hypnotize a woman and emotionally build passion. Provided she likes you. If she
doesn’t like you you’ll know.
181. Dynamics are essential ingredient in
every relationship. How you feel around one another sets the stage for your
whole relationship. If you are mad all the time, irritated, depressed, grumpy, excited,
etc it will set the mood over time and create the dynamics you have together.
182. Remembering little facts or little detail
they care about is a big deal. The little things usually equal up to big
things. So, pay attention to your partners little or insignificant details like
they’ve got cramps, headaches, pain in any part of their body, etc.
183. Cooking your partners’ favorite meal
after they’ve had a long day at work is probably one of the best thing you
could do for them.
184. It is much harder to go back and correct
someone on how you want to be treated than to be consistent from the start
about things you can tolerate. Don’t pretend who you’re not with the intention of letting your partner know your true self later. It hurts to the bone.
185. Staying in the nest too long is a bad
move for a man, if he stops working, and stops giving her time to miss him, she
will grow sick of him and begin to resent his presence.
186. Someone is more likely to change a habit
you don’t like permanently if you are more understanding about it, and don’t
chastise but instead be honest with how it makes you feel.
187. Be in your flow and don’t focus on them
way too much.
188. Have your own life.
189. No one person is responsible for your
happiness.
190. An attractive woman has many options but
this is all irrelevant.You’re an asset, her belief that you are the best for
her comes in the belief in yourself.
191. Never emotionally react to her ‘annoying
tests’ she is testing you to see how you handle it. If you remain cool and calm
like the lion in the Sahara, unbothered by your environment, she’ll think this
beyond just sexy.
Read: Emotional
Intelligence
192. Being thoughtful and doing an act of
service without being told will make her fall in love with you over and over.
As long as she doesn’t expect it and it isn’t too often.
193. He will love you that much more if you
remember the details about his hobby or passion, and genuinely care about what
he does.
194. During the heat of an argument sometimes
walking away and blowing off steam is better than saying things you can’t take
back.
195. Planning something for a special occasion
will get you lots of points.
196. Making the decision so she doesn’t have
to worry. This is always a great quality she respects.
197. Remember that giving someone what they
want when they ask for it all the time does nothing but turn you into a fool. Instead
learn to tell them no. Watch your sexy go up.
198. Name calling and insults can cause
irreversible damage.
199. Never make major decisions about the
relationship in the state of anger.
200. Never get complacent in a relationship.
Just because you are with someone doesn’t mean you should let yourself go.
Instead work even harder at being better. The better you are the harder it is
for them to let you go.
201. Avoid having the feeling of anger linger
overnight.
202. You will see how greatly your love life
improves once you make it a habit to be generous. This goes for everything and
not just buying things for your loved one (at some point it will not even
matter), but also being there for them and yes, in bed too.
203. A good conversation partner is not the
one who talks the most, but the one who listens well.
204. With reference to #203, women like to
share stories. But what if you’ve heard that story before? Just enjoy spending
quality time with her and listening to her sweet voice, being close to her and
giving her some gentle touch to show you’re really following the conversation.
205. Men, love with their “eyes”, while women love with their
“ears”. So ensure to tell her how wonderful she looks, cooks, dresses, puts on
makeup etc. She wants to hear that. In fact, she needs to hear you say so. Not
because she doesn’t have self-confidence, but because this would validate her
effort to do that for you and it would encourage her to continue doing it since
you do care and pay attention to her looks and others.
206.
If you want to keep your boyfriend/husband happy, don’t neglect developing “the
kitchen skill”, because a nice home cooked meal speaks louder than words.
207.
Be confident in yourself. Nothing appeals more than confidence.
208. Manners.
Yes, that means opening the door for your loved one, giving her your hand to
help her come out of the car, etc. Sounds old-fashioned? Maybe, but it does
work. Unless your lady insists that she really doesn’t care for that.
209. The more you give - the more you get, the
way you treat others will, in turn, be the way you’ll be treated by others.
210. When women are attracted to a man and
fall in love, their own insecurity kicks in almost immediately and that’s
because their mind starts to work against their feelings. It’s at this point
she want lots of validation and want to reassure herself he’s the one and does
it in the completely opposite way which makes the man feel unsafe and unsure
with her. The more desire she feels for him, the more she messes up which is
why she creates the drama and that sabotages many good looking and futuristic
relationship.
Read: How To Be Friends With
Someone Without Losing Your Mind
211. Most people are attracted first by what
they see and not what they know about a person.
212. Looks and a man’s resources matter for
younger girls than those of 28 years old and above. As they get older, looks
and a man’s resources still matter, but in a different view now.
213. Men are visual. Looks matter to men.
214. Jealousy can’t be fixed, controlled or as
some women say, “tamed.” It is what it is.
215. Most people will not have a successful
relationship if they keep seeing love aa fairytale told in one of those
romantic movies.
216. According to research, falling in love
produces several euphoria-inducing chemicals that stimulate 12 areas of the
brain at the same time.
Read: How
To Flirt With Your Girlfriend: 16 Secrets To Make Her Fall For You Again
217. Love
goes hand in hand with stress.Studies show that people at an early stage
of love have lower levels of serotonin, which is associated with feelings of
happiness and well-being, and higher levels of cortisol, associated with
stress.
218. Priorities
change when looking for a long term relationship with expectations of marriage.
There’s evidence that when looking for a fling, the body wins over the face on
a physical attraction basis. The opposite is true, however, for those who are
looking for a long-term relationship partner.
219. Feelings
of love make life much sweeter. Researchers looked at a group of people,
and found that those who were thinking about love said a specific kind of food
was sweeter than those thinking about jealousy or something neutral.
220. Those who claim
never to have felt romantic love suffer from hypopituitarism, a rare disease
that doesn’t allow a person to feel the rapture of love.
221. With reference to
#112, engagement rings are often worn on the fourth finger of the left hand
because the ancient Greeks believes that the finger contains the vena amoris,
or the “vein of love,” that runs straight to the heart.
222. Women are more
likely to fall in love with partners with ambition, education, wealth, respect,
status, a sense of humor, and who are taller than they are.
223. Women also prefer
distinctive cheekbones and a strong jawbone, which are linked to testosterone
levels.
224. The longer and
more deliberate a courtship, the better the prospects for a long marriage.
People who have intense, Hollywood-type romances at the beginning are more
likely to divorce.
225.Women often feel loved
when talking face to face with their partner; men, on the other hand, often
feel emotionally close when they work, play, or talk side by side.
226. Scientists
suggest that most people will fall in love approximately seven times before
marriage.
227. Research has
shown that thinking of love influences creativity and abstract thoughts, as
well as long-term planning. Thinking of sex however influences immediate
decision making and attention to momentary details.
228. On average, Greek
couples have sex 138 times a year, ranking first in the world, while Japan, the
last one, has an average of only 45 times a year.
229. Girls can become real sexy by controlling
their voices.
230.
Boys are most disgusted by girls' chattering complaints, and girls are most
disgusted by boys being silent.
231. Kissing requires 146 sets of muscles.
232. Love words are more pleasant to the left
ear.
233. Small fights between couples help maintain
intimacy.
234. Lovers with low blood sugar are more
likely to have disputes.
235. A boy spends an average of a whole year
looking at girls in his life.
236. Asking for opinions will make a person
like you more.
237. Watching romantic movies together is able
to reduce the divorce rate.
238. People who don't have a pet cannot
understand the importance of pets.
239. In a relationship, boys tend to say
"I love you" faster than girls.
240. Choosing a good dating location is super
important to building a lasting relationship.
241. By marrying your best friend, the risk of
divorcing can be reduced by more than 70%.
242. People who are ready to cheat usually
look up at the examiner first. Same is a cheating partner.
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243. Kissing for 10 seconds can exchange up to
80 million bacteria, which can help digesting food and fight infection.
244. The probability of finding your right one
in a dark place is 20% higher than in the light.
245. When you see the one you love, your
pupils will dilate.
246. The more you know about love, the harder
it is for you to fall in love. Funny right? Just go for it.
247. If you are on the phone more than an hour when
you are in love, the earwax in your ears will increase by about 700 times.
248.
The probability of the first love having a happy ending is only 1%.
249.
With reference to #12, when two people first met, if they looked at each other
for less than a second, then it proved that there was no spark between them.
250.
Mimic their body gestures with
reference to #65.
251. If they have frozen eyebrows, which means if
their eyebrows don't move during smiling, when surprised, or any time you
usually raise or fold your eyebrows, it means that they are hiding something
that worries or hurts them. Ask what’s
wrong? If they answer with their eyebrows still frozen, something's
wrong.
252.
Sometimes mention the name of your significant other at the end or beginning of
a small statement.
The
biology of sexual attraction, and theories on what love is only explain half of
the picture. Human love is more than sexual attraction, and more than all the
adjectives used to explain it. It is also a psychological condition. The mind
is where love takes root. When we fall in love our minds change, and when we
lose someone we love, that same feeling can bring us to low points in our lives.
The
above are weird but true fact about love.
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