Most girls think it’s the words they choose, but there are many other things that matter for a guy to like you instantly. Knowing how to talk to a guy you like can be the difference between being a girl who draws guys and leaves them smitten, and a girl who seems to be trying too hard around guys.
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When it comes to knowing how to talk to a guy, it
isn’t about learning subtle tricks to impress one specific guy. After all,
most guys like a girl who is popular, fun and desired by all guys.
Moreover you don’t really need to change your
conversations for him. You just need to play by a few simple rules.
Guys like all girls, but they like a few girls a lot
more. Know that guys like these girls more because they make the guy feel
special and desirable.
What happens when the guy you like doesn’t seem to
put any effort into pursuing you? That’s right! It’s up to you to sweet-talk
that guy and steal his heart. It’s time for you to take charge for a change,
and learn how to win over a man’s heart. Despite popular opinion, it is possible
and not actually hard at all.
Read: What’s
He Thinking? How To Know He’s Interested In You
Here
are the tips to win over a guy and make him like you
Now that you know how to catch his eye, and initiate
a conversation with him, all you need to focus on is how to talk to a guy and
get him to like you, when he’s around you. Just use these tips and ways, and we
assure you, he’ll be smitten in no time!
1. Don’t bother on what
he’s thinking about.
Of course, you worry about
what he’s thinking or if you’re saying something that bores him. If you want to
be as relaxed and comfortable as possible when you talk to a guy, stop thinking
about what he’s thinking because it doesn’t matter. If he enjoys your company,
you could talk about anything you like and he’d still listen. The important
thing is having a conversation.
2. Appeal to his masculine
side
If there’s one thing a man
really wants, it’s to feel manly. If you talk about his masculinity in any way,
ask him to help lift heavy stuff in and around the house, tell him he’s strong/compliment
his strength, etc.—it work wonders! He’ll find himself trying to impress you
more and more with his masculinity.
3. Smile often.
The next time you’re talking to a guy you like,
smile more often. Giggle at his jokes, smile now and then for no particular
reason and reveal that sparkle in your eyes. After all, when you’re happy, it
shows.
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24 Romantic Gestures To Make Him Smile
Guys are mesmerized by a woman’s smile. For one, it
makes her look approachable and fun, and another, she just screams confidence
when she walks around with a broad smile on her face.
4. Compliment
his looks.
Read: 74 Compliments Men Would Love To Hear
With reference to #2, compliment his looks but
subtly. You want to let a guy know you appreciate him, not that you’ve fallen
for him. Find subtle ways to point out that he’s looking good.
Simply
telling him that a certain color suits him well is a sure
way to start a conversation and getting him interested in you. You’ll notice
that he’ll start wearing that color more.
5. Be subtle.
Being forthcoming is one thing, but you also have to
be subtle. This sounds contradictory, right? If you’re too easy with your
affection, men won’t pay much attention. They love the chase. In order to
effectively sweet-talk, you’ll need to send them hints here and there, without
revealing that you want them to fall for you.
6. Talk
about what interests them.
There’s nothing more interesting than talking to
someone about topic they’re passionate about. You’ll see the light in their
eyes and the burst of energy they emit when they start talking. Now, if you’re
really passionate about something, there’s nothing wrong with sharing it with
him. But don’t allow yours overshadow theirs. He sees where your passions lie
and that can be a huge turn on for him, especially if it interests him
7. Make
regular eye contact.
If there’s one thing you need to remember when it
comes to knowing how to talk to a guy and winning him over, it’s making
eye contact with him. When you’re talking to him and flirting subtly with him, make
sure you make eye contact. Eye contacts tell a lot about your confidence.
8. Be
confident.
With reference to #7, men easily fall in love with confident
women. So, make sure you are confident each time you talk to him and he’ll be yours
just soon.
9. Talk
about his work.
With reference to #6, men are proud beings. They
love being told that they work hard at what they do. One way to steal his heart
while talking to a guy is to be fascinated by his work and ask him about it
frequently. Ask him about any projects he has going on, or anything else that’s
relevant to his work.
10. Laugh
when necessary.
If you want to know how to talk to a guy and make
him enjoy your company, remember that everyone likes to be around people who
they share a laugh with. In addition, it helps you relax once you laugh
together.
Read: He
Makes Me Smile: 23 Signs You’re In The Right Relationship
11. Use
mutual interests as a way to hang out.
With reference to #6, you’ve been talking for a
while now, so in all probability, you’ve figured if you both have mutual
interests. Maybe you could try out that new restaurant that just opened up if
you two are foodie.
You just need to drop the right kind of hints if you
don’t want to ask him out directly. But wait until you are on friendly
terms before you suggest a hang out.
12. Catch
his eye from time to time.
When in a public place, let him catch you staring
and send him a small smile before turning away. Giving him sexy little glances
throughout the night is basically grabbing his heart and running away with it.
13. No one likes a liar, don’t lie.
This is just because we don’t want you creating all
these lies about yourself just for him to like you. Know that you have to keep
up with all the lies you make, which is not going to be easy.
So, just be honest. This isn’t for him, it’s for
you. You may want to tell him what he wants to hear just to impress him, but if
it’s not honest, then don’t say it. Remember that no one likes a liar.
14. Appreciate
him.
Most girls take a guy’s gestures for granted. Over
time, guys will stop paying attention to you. If someone does something nice
for you, don’t you think they deserve a thank you, or at least a warm smile? Never
forget that, and don’t take his effort for granted.
15. Touch
him subtly.
Guys are drawn to gentle/tender touch of a girls.
Even scientific research has shown that guys involuntarily start showing more
interest and flirt more with girls who touch them subtly in the middle of a
conversation or for no reason.
Occasionally, touch his forearm or place your palm
on the edge of his shoulder or any other place that would be appropriate for
casual touches, and you’ll see how his interest in you would grow.
16. Be
polite.
This is one of the qualities of a good, well natured
girl that all guys want. If you want to know how to talk to a guy, keep this in
mind. Be nice, good natured and polite. Mind your T’s and D’s, and be nice, not
just to him, but to the people around you.
You could pretend to be nice in front of a guy, just
to win him over. But then, you’re just being fake, and it’s not easy to keep up
with the act. Instead, learn to be a genuinely nice person and it’ll only make
him want you more.
17. Don’t over-text
him.
If he doesn’t reply your text in five minutes, don’t
send him another and another text message. Leave him alone, he’ll reply. If he
doesn’t reply in a day or two, then text him again.
If you over-text someone, it’s flat out annoying and
becomes a huge turn-off. But if you notice he’s not replying or giving you
one-word answers, maybe it’s time to cool it for a while.
18. Be coy
and graceful.
Through the ages, women have loved chivalrous men,
and men have loved graceful, coy women. Now, there’s a big difference between
being a shy timid girl and a girl who’s coy. Shy is when you’re a shy person.
And coy is when you’re pretending to be shy to appear more alluring and
attractive.
Play with your hair when you’re being thoughtful,
have your own cute expressions, bat your eyelids twice instead of just once
every time you close your eyes! Silly, yes, but does it work? it does.
19. Rouse
his protective streak.
Throughout evolution, men have always been the
hunters and the protectors while women have been the nurturers and the
foragers. When you rekindle this primal instinct in a guy, he would appreciate
it and love it. Reach out and hold his arm while crossing the street, smile
shyly and ask him if he can carry a heavy book for a minute, hold his hand as a
big, scary dog comes near you, etc.
20. Don’t
have a foul mouth.
Girls who use foul language all the time are a turn
off for most guys. But if you’re a girl who can trash talk and appear
vulnerable and strong being independent at the same time, good for
you.
If you don’t fall into the category of girls above,
try to avoid using bad words or the “F” word always. Don’t talk ill about other
girls and don’t make rude remarks about coworkers or passersby.
21. Be
mysterious.
Guys find mysterious girls a bit annoying, but they
can’t help falling in love with them. You don’t need to tell a guy you’re
talking to everything. If you’re looking lost or if he catches you smiling to
yourself and asks you about it, you can just tell him it’s nothing. Don’t
reveal everything that goes on in your mind or you’ll just become boring.
Note please: you cannot do this to your significant
other because he will think you’re having an affair.
22. Avoid
ex-related topics.
Yeah, no one wants to talk about past failed
relationships, not at least in the early parts where you’re trying to get him
to like you. And if he does talk about an ex, it’s okay to listen and nod
along, but don’t prolong the conversation. Why? Because then you change the
relationship from a possible love interest to a therapist. Once you’ve become
his therapist, it’s a hard spot to get out of.
23. Communicate
on social media.
Now, usually, having long conversations on social
media is a no-no. However, it can be used in a positive way to help break the
ice. Everyone loves memes, so if you tag him in a funny one, it shows him that
you’re comfortable with him.
Then, he shares memes and funny posts with you as
well. Now, what you don’t want to happen is you only end up communicating via social media.
24. Make
physical contacts.
With reference to #23, lightly touch his arm when
you’re talking or brush past him and look back as you walk by. These are subtle
signs that you want to be close to him and he’ll be itching for more.
25. Communicate on a
regular basis.
Talking with a guy often helps you relax and become
comfortable around him. Also, by frequent communication, you get to know each
other on a deeper level, discussing topics which aren’t just considered “small
talk.” That’s what you want right?
26. Don’t force the conversation.
When it comes to knowing how to talk to a guy you
like, we know you want the conversation to flow magically, and then you
immediately fall in love, but it may not happen that way.
Some people take longer to warm up to others. He
could be nervous, or he could not be interested in you. But don’t force
conversation. If he wants to keep the conversation going, he’ll say something
or ask questions.
27. Just be yourself.
Understanding how to talk to a guy you like means
you need to be yourself. Don’t try to change your interests or sense of humor
just to suit him.
Be yourself, laugh at things you find funny, talk
about things that interest you, and give him a real idea of who you are. If he
doesn’t like it, it’s his problem.
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